Tenei, a tenei, i te tikanga ture ipoiporaa
Ki te whakaaro koe e pā ana ki te whiwhi faaipoipo i roto i te Japan, to koutou i te tuatahi whakaaro pea te peka ki te mārenaI tua atu, heoi, ka whai koe ki te peke i roto i te uiui mowhiti ki te riro i te ture rēhita. Tatou ka titiro tuatahi mō te wā poto i te hui kōwhiringa, me te ka te katoa-nui te rēhita i ngā tukanga. Wedding hui i roto i te fenua Tapone e whakamahia ana ki te waiho i tuku iho Shinto take. I roto i te whakamutunga e toru tekau nga tau, ahakoa, 'fare pureraa marena' kua meinga te täkupu. Ko enei katoa-i roto i-tetahi take whakaritea e marena wheketere tauhiuhia puta noa i te fenua Tapone. Enei marena multiplexes whakahere 'akoranga', e faaohie, ka tahuri ki te katoa o te hui ki roto i te mōkihi mahi: reti kakahu, hui, tina, MC, 'tohunga' (te maha, he tangata ke ki te kahore he whakapono, te whakangungu, te pānui i te hōtuhi), te kaitango whakaahua. Enei marena ahu ki te whai i te moka o te Disneyesque ite, e rua hoaina, me te i roto i te hui iho. He kōwhiringa tuarua ko te haere ki te kura tawhito: wed i te wahi tiketike.
No te mea ko te tuku iho shrine hui kua mamingatanga i roto i te rongonui i te marena uipaanga tuhia i runga ake, tenei kōwhiringa kua riro iti te utu.
Shrines hoki e whakahere te 'akoranga': reti kakahu, hui, ōkawa kai. Hoki e rua, ka taea e koe te kōrero i te Japanese pae i raro iho nei (ki nei i te fenua Tapone e Manuhiri no te whanaungatanga, me te ki nei te pea e kore te kawenga).
Ko te huarahi māmā ki te tiki faaipoipo, ko te ki te tika te rēhita i te te karo i te tari.
Me kï te reira e whiwhi faaipoipo i roto i te Japan titau i tenei ture te faaipoiporaa rēhita mā te tokorua i te Japanese terenga kāwanatanga ki te tari mo te rohe i roto i te e noho ana ratou.
I te hui i ravehia e te whakahaere faaroo - temepara hoki, i te wahi tiketike, hahi, whare karakia, etc.
Te puka mō te kore-whakataetaetia e whakarere he rite ki te tika-whakamua.
Tuatahi, i karo te tari e hiahia ana koe ki te tiki i te puka e tika ana: Ki te whakaoti i tenei i te Japanese hoa e hiahia ana ki te whakaatu ki a ia tōna whānau ki te rēhita rite te tohu o te tuakiri. Tuatoru, e rua ngā rōpū, ka inaianei tohu ranei affix ratou hiri ki te whakamatau ratou e nei i te titau ratou ki te hei.
i roto i te fenua Tapone e kore e mahi
I teie nei e rite ki te whakaki i roto i te tūturu puka. Whakamutunga - ranei pea tuatahi - kia koe mōhio o te tikanga ko wai hoki e āhei ana ki te marena. Ko te Japanese Civil Waehere, tuhinga, ki te, kei roto i te e whai ake nei i mua i-te tikanga mo te faaipoiporaa.
Ko te tane, hoa me te tekau ma waru tau te pakeke, i te wahine, hoa me te tekau ma ono tau te pakeke.
(No te Ameliká, me e taea ki te ture marena, i roto i to koutou te kāinga kāwanatanga. Ki te, hei tauira, ko te pakeke ture o te faaipoiporaa i te kāinga, ko te, e kore e taea e koe te marena i te aroaro o e i roto i te Japan. I te wahine e kore e he ahei ana ki te tiki faaipoipo i roto i te ono marama o te whakakorenga o tona mua te faaipoiporaa. (I tēnei ko te ki te karo te whakama ki te whakamatuatanga matua o ngā tamariki.). Katoa ke nei i te marena i roto i te fenua Tapone, me te faaineine i te oati i oati o te Matatau ki te Marena, e whakakoia ana e ratou te ture te kore utu ki te marena. I tēnei puka taea te whiwhi i runga i to ratou whenua o te karere i tari kairauhī ranei i roto i te Japan. Ki te kotahi te hoa American, s ia, me te whakaoti i te oati i oati o te Matatau ki te Marena i te US Embassy. Tenei ahua he te rua wahi, tetahi ki te e oti i roto i te reo ingarihi me te ētahi atu ki te e oti i roto i te Japanese. (E hiahia ana koe ki te kawe mai to koutou tika USA uruwhenua, me te tara e toru tekau notarial utu kia utua i roto i te US tara ranei yen.) Japan e kore ano e tukua e te taua-sex te faaipoiporaa i waenganui i te pai, moe wahine ranei transgender faaipoipo, engari mai reira kua whakahaerehia te faaipoiporaa tāwāhi o te Japanese motu ki te motu ke o te takoto ano. I roto i tenei take, te Hapanihi, te motu me, 'he tiwhikete o te ture i te āheinga ki te kirimana faaipoiporaa. Tenei tiwhikete i mohiotia hoki i te poto, 'kotahi-te mana tiwhikete. Tenei tiwhikete i whakaputaina e te kaunihera ā-rohe, i ahau. i te pa, ward, ranei, te whare pa, me te he ture tohu e te kaitono o tēnei wā takakau mana.
